From my Dearest Friend's Memoir...

Some people make you feel elated, some depress
Some make you a genius, some a fool
Some give you hopes and dreams, some only sorrows
Some always keep their door open, some close upon your face
Some befriend and make you, some spy and destroy
Some walk-in in hour of need, some look upon your deed
Conditionally some care, unconditionally some love...
.... The more you see them, the more you discover.
    In the sea of so many creeds n kinds, its rare to find a true friend and am glad I met one....

From My most loving n trusted friend Rashmi :))

Luv you always... till eternity!

Yours,

Racchana

Amazingly true excerpt from someone's thoughts!

I came across someones thoughts and found them so amazingly true.. just want to keep them in my diary...
"I used to think that finding the right one was about the man having a list of certain qualities. If he has them, we'd be compatible and happy. Sort of a checkmark system that was a complete failure. But I found out that a healthy relationship isn't so much about sense of humor or intelligence or attractive. It's about avoiding partners with harmful traits and personality types. And then it's about being with a good person. A good person on his own, and a good person with you. Where the space between you feels uncomplicated and happy. A good relationship is where things just work. They work because, whatever the list of qualities, whatever the reason, you happen to be really, really good together.”

SO AMAZINGLY TRUE !!!

What's your choice?

Whenever theres a situation  like Yin and Yang which goes together but are completely opposite to each other or something like Railway tracks which move together in parallels but never meet each other,  it can only result in less than average happiness in a relationship between two people. Whereas when situation is like the two Rivers..which after flowing through high terrains and obstacles,  meet each other at a confluence and then flow together into the ocean.. sharing the same purpose, it gives a sense of satisfaction and contentment with utmost tranquility in a relationship between two people! Or sometimes a situation can be like two Minds which are parallel poles whose frequency do not quite meet but still they have interconnections like the rungs of a ladder and balance out their separate individuality along with the other persons' ..with a good level of understanding and it surprisingly works! What's more important is to figure out whether your relationship falls into the first category or the second or the third.. The choice is always with us which option to practice!!!

Today's Muse...

Zircon too shines like a Diamond but it takes an eye to distinguish artificial glass from the real glory of a Diamond! 

Today's Muse...

In the mathematics of life materialistic beings keep calculating in terms of addition  and subtraction but forget that multiplication of peace and spirituality divides the sorrows and sufferings of life !

Racchana Fadia's Query vis-a-vis Parthik Fadia's Theory of Life

Had an interesting chat with my younger brother today and got to know something new from him.. So meaningful and interesting! When I questioned him "so you mean to say Life is a Chess?"  he replied -

"Life is not exactly Chess but Life is like Chess with the only difference that the goal is not to kill but only to defend, survive and conquer without slaying!"

Salute his concept and theory of life! and I guess everyone does that subconsciously.
But the only doubts which kept ringing in my ears are... If thats the case then why did great men like Mahavir, Buddha, Chandragupta, Chanakya, Ashoka and many more took refuge in renunciation? Why they gave up playing The Chess of Life? Probably their motto in the Chess they had to play in their past life was also to Kill to survive!

But theres the catch.. whether we want success by hook or by crook OR we are searching Truth without bothering about disappearance in anonymity!

God throws boundless temptations at us but The Choice is ours!

Buddha Vaani

Jaati pi Dukkham, Vyaadhi pi Dukhham
Jara pi Dukhham, Maranam pi Dukhham


There is an element of misery in Birth, Illness, Ageing, Death