Just a couple of days ago, while I was
casually searching for clips of the Chinese drama Eternal Love on
YouTube, I stumbled across something that shook me to the core. The news
of Alan Yu (Yu Menglong), just 37 years old, passing away suddenly.
Yu played the brother of Yang Mi’s character in Eternal Love, a
role that had etched him deeply into the hearts of viewers across the world.
At first, I thought it might be another celebrity hoax. But as I dug deeper, the reality emerged: Yu Menglong had indeed died after falling from a building in Beijing. His studio and police confirmed the news, and his mother later stated it was an accidental fall, possibly after drinking.
And yet, the story didn’t end there.
According to official reports:
- Yu Menglong died on September 11, 2025, after falling from a friend’s apartment building.
- Police ruled out criminal involvement.
- His mother called it an accident, saying alcohol might have played a role.
But online, a much darker picture is circulating:
- Allegations that he was murdered, tortured, or pressured by powerful forces.
- Screenshots of alleged messages where Yu said, “They may kill me anytime… money transferred to me is dirty.”
- Claims that social media posts about his death are being deleted or censored.
Whether fact or fabrication, these rumours have spread fast — because fans feel the official narrative leaves too many unanswered questions.
Another Painful Reminder of Sushant Singh Rajput
As I read more, I couldn’t help but be reminded of Sushant Singh Rajput’s death in India. A similar story:
- A young, gifted, humble actor from a modest background, adored by millions.
- Sudden and shocking death.
- Allegations of foul play, cover-ups, silenced voices.
- Fans grieving not just the loss, but the unanswered “why.”
Both Yu Menglong and Sushant Singh Rajput shared qualities that made them beloved: talented, charming, hardworking, good-hearted, innocent, rising to fame quickly. And perhaps — tragically — both may have shared the burden of being caught in bad company, toxic power circles, and ego-driven environments that suffocate sensitive souls.
In my grief and frustration, I searched the internet for this age-old question, "
"Why Do Bad Things Happen to Good People?"
One perspective I came across struck me at my core:
Sometimes, out of recklessness or ignorance or the trap of being one of them, we surround ourselves with people whose values do not align with goodness and greatness. Out of ambition, dependence, or peer pressure, we may allow ourselves to stay in circles that are spiritually unhealthy, driven by ego, jealousy, or greed.
And this mismatch can bring danger.
This thought echoed a teaching of Lord Buddha in the Maha Mangal Sutta, which emphasizes the importance of keeping the right company:
- Stay away from fools and harmful influences.
- Seek the company of the wise and spiritually awakened.
It’s a reminder that the company we keep can be as crucial to our wellbeing as our own intentions.
This also reminded me of other striking similarities in the role of intoxicants and parties between all recent tragic deaths.
Yu Menglong is said to have been at a party with drinks the night before his fall. Disha Salian, closely linked to Sushant’s case, too was reported to have attended a party involving intoxicants and alcohol. And Sushant himself, according to claims, was pushed into using hashish under peer pressure from his then-girlfriend and brother-in-law.
Here, the words of Lord Buddha in the Maha Mangal Sutta ring with timeless relevance. The Blessed One clearly advises us to avoid and abstain from evil people, intoxicating drinks, practice self-control and chastity, and reflect deeply on the Four Noble Truths. These are not simply personal disciplines, but shields against situations that can make one vulnerable to manipulation, downfall, and avoidable tragedy.
Among the thirty-eight blessings described in the Sutta, the conclusion is striking: one who abides by these blessings is “victorious everywhere” and succeeds in all their goals. It is as if the Buddha foresaw how intoxicants and reckless associations could become gateways to destruction, while restraint and wisdom pave the way to victory and lasting peace.
MahaMangal Sutta With Hindi Translation Subtitles :
Yu Menglong’s passing leaves us with grief, confusion, and suspicion. The truth may or may not ever be fully known. But what it certainly leaves us with is reflection:
- To remember that life is fragile and uncertain.
- To question the systems around us that hide or twist truth.
- To protect our own paths by choosing wisely the people we trust, work with, and draw influence from.
- To live with compassion, because often the kindest people carry the heaviest unseen burdens.
And perhaps most importantly: when we experience red flags from people, we must choose to let go and instead hold on to that which nurtures our soul — not shortcuts to artificial enrichment or co-dependency driven by greed and lust.
The Silent Fear: When Good Souls Sense Danger
Another common thread between Yu Menglong and Sushant Singh Rajput is chilling: both seemed to sense that their lives were in danger.
- Yu Menglong is said to have sent messages indicating he was being threatened, that money forced upon him was “dirty,” and that “they may kill me anytime.”
- Sushant too, according to many close accounts, had confided fears of being watched, controlled, and harmed. He had changed his sims multiple times in just few days before his painful passing away.
For sensitive, innocent souls in power-driven, exploitative environments, this is not rare. Many sense danger before anything happens, but often they lack the right support system to protect them.
If these tragic stories teach us anything, it is that awareness and support are not luxuries, but necessities. To avoid such situations, here are lessons we can all take:
1. Trust Red Flags Early
When your inner voice signals danger — whether through controlling behavior, threats, financial manipulation, or coercion — listen. Don’t dismiss intuition.
2. Avoid Isolation
Dangerous people often thrive by isolating their targets. Build and maintain a circle of trustworthy friends, family, mentors, or spiritual guides who can see what you might not.
3. Stay Away from Intoxicants
As Lord Buddha taught in the Maha Mangal Sutta, intoxicants cloud judgment and weaken self-control, making one vulnerable to exploitation and peer pressure.
4. Seek Wise Counsel
Stay in company of those with spiritual wisdom, integrity, and values. Just as bad company accelerates downfall, good company provides clarity, courage, and resilience.
5. Document and Share Concerns
When feeling threatened, it is vital to confide in trusted people and document what is happening. Silence and secrecy empower abusers.
6. Choose Soul-Nurturing Paths & Cultivate Impeccable Bond with Higher Self and Intuition Through Meditation
As we reflected earlier — choose that which nourishes your soul INSTEAD OF shortcuts, artificial enrichment, or toxic co-dependency born of greed or lust.
The surest way to do this is by going within. Regular meditation clears the clouds of doubt and fear, aligning our inner compass with the Divine and our higher Self. This inner GPS gently but powerfully guides us toward the right people, the right choices, and the right circumstances — while helping us sense and step away from danger or manipulation before it’s too late.
7. And Last But Not the Least - MAINTAIN The Delicate Balance Between Ambition and Discernment - Learn to Say "NO" when it does not feel right in your heart!
Ambition is not wrong — in fact, it is the fire that drives growth, creativity, and achievement. But ambition without discernment can become a trap.
Be ambitious, but with clear judgment and discernment about whom to associate with and whom to avoid.
Do not get so carried away by the glamour and shine of people who repeatedly show red flags, that by the time you realize it, you are already trapped in their chakravyuh — a one-way maze of regret, manipulation, and loss of freedom. In such circles, the danger of becoming mere puppets of unconscientious people is very real.So yes, be ambitious — but ambitious enough to retain sovereignty over your own mind, body, and spirit. That is the kind of ambition Lord Buddha’s teachings point us towards: one that nurtures inner strength, clarity, and freedom, rather than ensnaring us in the glitter of false company.
As I thought more, I was reminded of a Hindi and Gujarati saying:
“Kaashi me bhi kauvve kaale hote hai.”
Even in the holiest of places, the crows are still black. In other words, no matter where we go in the world, the same patterns exist — power struggles, rat races, human emotions hijacking good sense, people pleasing and inability to say "NO", crimes committed for ego wars, lust and money. This isn’t bound by geography or culture; it is a universal human weakness. And perhaps that is why the teachings of wisdom traditions — like Lord Buddha’s call to discernment and wise company in the Mangal Sutta — remain so timeless and urgent.
Final Thoughts
The death of Yu Menglong is not just the loss of an actor, but the loss of a gentle soul who touched many hearts through his work. Whether his end was an accident or something darker, it reminds us to live with vigilance, empathy, and spiritual discernment.
Like Sushant Singh Rajput, Yu Menglong will live on through his art and through the conversations his untimely passing has sparked.
And maybe — just maybe — their stories will inspire us to choose better company, seek truth, and walk our own journeys with both courage and wisdom.
✨ Rest in peace, Alan Yu Menglong. Lovingly Pray for your soul's liberation! 🪷🪷🪷
Forever a Seeker of Truth & Divine!
Meraki Pegasus