Dearest Earth Angels Jay Shetty & Radhika,
Thank you for sharing such inspiring messages by opening up about the challenges in your own marriage and ways that can salvage the relationship.
It is a profound gift to others, especially the current generation used to instant gratifications, who often romanticize relationships as being only about pink roses and chocolates, destination weddings and picture-perfect moments captured on camera, only to be flaunted on social media handles and platforms for a show-off to the list of contacts on these platforms!
Your words remind us that even in the most loving and successful marriages—whether built through love or arranged union—the journey is not always a seamless “happily ever after”!
Marriage is a journey of two souls coming together to navigate the tapestry of life and sail together in a ship called "Friendship". I really cannot imagine spending an entire life waking up next to someone, who is a stranger and can not or does not want to understand each other's temperaments, appreciate each other's strengths and work together on each other's weaknesses to rise together in Love, but instead wants to wear masks and manipulate to control and dominate the equation for holding authority and power in this relationship!
While the world often defines love in fleeting moments of romantic songs and passionate sensual intimacy, true love in marriage is found in the commitment to rise higher together in spirit, against all odds!
There are moments when couples may perceive situations differently, and that’s entirely natural. What truly matters is about understanding that challenges are not roadblocks but opportunities for growth. When two people choose to embrace each other’s individuality, communicate with open hearts and open minds with complete transparency to each other, and let the Soul & Trust / Faith replace the Ego & Prejudice, they can truly create a foundation of unshakable genuine Love.
Marriage is a conscious commitment of conviction between two souls—a choice to remain honest with oneself and one’s spouse. It thrives on transparency, offering enough space for individuality, releasing the need for control or manipulations, and nurturing a foundation of faithfulness and forgiveness. True love flourishes when there is respect, trust, and a genuine effort to understand each other’s viewpoints, knowing that the two souls were grown in different cultures and families with different backgrounds, traditions and perspectives!
Ultimately, True love in marriage is the decision to grow emotionally, mentally, and spiritually as a team. It is the conscious choice of standing for and by one another in every season , every phase, every situation of life with grace and steadfast devotion in entire lifetime of togetherness, having a non-negotiable "Personal Code of Honor" for Family & Love!
"Falling In Deep Love" is all about the deepening of love with the essence of your partner—recognizing that marriage is not a destination but a beautiful, evolving journey of unity and grace through the continuous process of learning from each other to ultimately "Rise Higher In Spirits & Highest Vibration of Love"
That, indeed, is what a real Marriage is all about - Its about conviction and not convenience! A marriage done for conveniences such as grandeur in name / grand status / a leap in career / overnight success, convenience of any material gains , convenience of comfortable life, influence and connections, business alliances etc or even just the mere convenience of companionship because someone is scared to be alone for the rest of their lives without a spouse: these are all very shaky, empty and unreliable foundations that can never sustain the conviction to stay united in marriage for an entire lifetime!
I pray that God continues to bless you both with a pure and loving bond that grows stronger with each passing day and transcends beyond time. Let your bond reflect the divine harmony of love, and may you inspire others to believe in the sacred beauty of marriage.
Let The Spirit Of True Unconditional Love Spread Across All The Sentient Beings On Mother Gaia!
Forever A Humble Seeker of The Truth & The Divine!
Meraki Pegasus
Dr Racchana D Fadia
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